• Arrange meetings in public places, e.g. restaurants, pubs, etc. - not in your home.
• On your first meetings, it is best to make your own way to and from the venue. It is best not to accept an offer of transport.
• Leave details of your meeting with family or friends when seeing someone for the first time.
• Don't give your address until you are sure that you want to continue the relationship.
• Trust your instincts and don't meet again if you have any doubts.

These points may seem over-cautious but if the person you meet is genuine, they will understand.